Hello Reader,

As you show up as your best every day, remember to be your own best friend and caregiver. Gentleness and kindness with yourself is not a luxury, it's an absolute necessity.

With kindness, Steve Mattus

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P.S.: Just like tacos are not a luxury, but an absolute necessity. (#IamWillingToDieOnThisHill)

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It's been a while... may I share an update?

It's been a minute since we last connected, hasn't it? Life has a funny way of sweeping us up in its currents, and sometimes we need to ride the waves before finding our way back to shore. But here I am, sand between my toes and a fresh perspective to share.

Remember that Nervous System Miracle course I was yakking about last December? Well, buckle up, because it was a wild ride. We're talking 5.8 stars out of 5 - yeah, we broke the rating system (#TrueStory). It's like we found a secret level in the video game of life. 🏆

But here's the thing: pouring your heart and soul into something like that? It's beautiful, transformative, and utterly exhausting. I needed time to recharge, to fill my own cup before I could pour for others again. (And no, sadly, I couldn't fill that cup with infinite tacos. Trust me, I tried.)

So, what's next on this crazy journey?

I'm glad you asked.

I'm shifting gears in the ol' business of ∞actualinfinity as I open up to a few new clients. Like putting on a fresh new pair of spectacles, I'm going to focus on something I believe can revolutionize the way we approach life and business: Supportive Systems. Now, before you yawn and think "systems, how boring," let me stop you right there. We're not talking about color-coded spreadsheets and soul-crushing routines.

Imagine waking up each day feeling like you've got this. Like the chaos of life has been tamed into a purring kitten 🐱 instead of a roaring lion🦁. That's what well-designed supportive systems can do for you.

In the coming months, in my Heart Notes, and other ways, I'll dive into:

1. What the heck are Supportive Systems (and why they're the secret sauce to a life well-lived)
2. How to spot when your systems are broken ((hint: if your life or business feels like a dumpster fire more than once in a while, that's a clue)
3. Building systems that feel like a warm hug, not a straightjacket
4. The neuroscience behind it all (because we all enjoy a little brain candy once in a while #NervousSystemEducation)
5. How to infuse your systems with more love than a Hallmark movie marathon

What about Heart Notes? 💜

And for those of you who've been missing my Heart Notes - they're coming back! Consider them your weekly dose of digital comfort food, minus the calories.

Now, some of you might be thinking: "Steve, I kinda enjoyed the silence and not hearing from you." And that's okay! The unsubscribe link is at the bottom if you need it. No hard feelings - we'll always have tacos.

But if you're ready to transform your life & business - that chatter in your brain, or that panicked look on your face when you see the rainbow of colored post-it notes covering half your monitor - yeah... aaaaaaalll that kind of stuff... if you're wanting to transform all of THAT from a chaotic whirlwind into a purposeful journey that's waaaaay easier to navigate, stick around.

My approach to Supportive Systems is about as conventional as showing up to a black-tie gala in a hot dog costume – unexpected, a little outrageous, but secretly what everyone wishes they had the chutzpah to do. It's the kind of unconventional that makes people tilt their heads like confused puppies at first, then suddenly exclaim 'Holy Batman costumes, why didn't I think of that?!'

So, hit reply and let me know you're still here. Share what's been going on in your world. Ask me anything - except how I manage to fold fitted sheets perfectly. That's a mystical art I've sworn to protect, lest it fall into the wrong hands and disrupt the delicate balance of laundry-related frustrations worldwide. (But just between us? I'm dying to spill this secret. So, if you ask, Reader, I'll teach you... but only you. 😉 And... you have to promise not to tell.)

If your heart is yearning for a little more kindness, a dash of wisdom, and a heaping helping of love, you're in the right place. Let's turn that life of yours from a never-ending to-do list into an masterpiece of purpose and joyful spaciousness.

Thanks for being here, for being you, and for joining me on this wild journey of... whatever we're calling it these days. Your presence here means more to me than you know. Together, we're creating a community where it's okay to be perfectly imperfect, to stumble and get back up, to struggle yet not collapse (and even if we do, we help each other up), and to find joy in the smallest victories. Here's to embracing our quirks, celebrating our progress (no matter how small), and finding more ways to sprinkle love into the world – one supportive system at a time.

more love, not less - all-ways💜™,

Steve (Your friendly neighborhood system wizard and professional taco appreciator)

P.S. Now, I hear you asking, "But Steve, what's next with that Nervous System Magic? Are you going to leave us disappointed like the final season of Game of Thrones?" Fear not, my precious cinnamon roll. I'm pivoting faster than Ross Geller can yell "PIVOT!" while moving a couch. 🛋️

I'm actually building a Nervous System Miracle Basics (entry-level) course that I assure you will be more mind-blowing than finding out your cat's been secretly paying your WiFi bill. 🐈‍⬛

It's like yoga for your nervous system, but without the awkward sweating. Seriously, if you're interested in that basic nervous system course, let me know via reply. It's going to be more transformative than finding the perfect avocado at the grocery store. And we all know how rare that is!

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